Friday, November 21, 2008
will launch a new one!
Recently, I am so busy with my work and my family. I do not have time to even visit this page..huhh luckily today I am rewarding myself to visit and update this blog after submitting one manuscript. Yesterday, on the way back to kesumalakes we have had discussed about the good thing to have a blog. My hubby also has 2 blogs now even though previously, he had a few blog in his trial but this time he seems seriously manage those blogs. Keep up a good entry dear!. While I am thinking that this blog really don’t have a theme..I just wrote everything that I like, I feel and whatever comes across to my mind. Therefore, I am decided to open a new branch. Yeahh..launching a new site! What is the theme? I have thinking bout that but yet still not confirm. Its ok once launching, I will announce. Hmm.. I think if Uzair Aqil can understand what blog is all about..he will definitely wanna have one ;)
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Pastikan normal (Dr.Ismail Thamby, doktor pakar sakit tuan)
APABILA bayi selamat dilahirkan, mustahak untuk memastikan dia ada sepasang buah zakar dan anggota kelaminnya berkeadaan normal.
Kadangkala berlaku kes buah zakar tiada dalam kerandut walaupun bayi itu disahkan memiliki sepasang buah zakar. Selain itu ada juga berlaku buah zakar tertarik ke atas, di mana keadaan ini dikenali sebagai ‘retractile testis’.
Namun bagi retractile testis, tiada apa perlu dilakukan. Ia hanya berlaku dalam keadaan tertentu seperti menyentuh anggota kelamin ketika membasuhnya. Dalam sekelip mata buah zakar yang tertarik itu masuk semula ke kerandut.
Jarang berlaku buah zakar itu tidak turun. Jika berlaku, masalah itu perlu dirujuk kepada doktor. Jika kerap terjadi, doktor akan cadangkan supaya buah zakar ditempatkan ke dalam kerandut melalui pembedahan kecil.
Sama juga dengan buah zakar yang tersangkut di atas, iaitu yang tidak turun sejak lahir. Keadaan ini dikenali sebagai ‘kryptorkidisme’ dan pembedahan menurunkan buah zakar yang tersangkut perlu dilakukan sebelum lelaki itu baligh.Pembedahan perlu dilakukan secepat mungkin, lagi cepat lagi bagus, seawal bayi masuk umur dua tahun. Dalam umur itu, tiada kemungkinan buah zakar yang tersangkut itu turun secara normal.Jika perlu, doktor akan lakukan pembedahan selepas mengetahui kedudukan buah zakar budak itu.
Jarang buah zakar itu tidak terbentuk atau tiada. Jika tiada, tidak perlu berbuat apa-apa. Satu buah zakar sudah cukup jika ia normal.
Saya syorkan pembaca yang ada masalah berkaitan anggota kelamin kanak-kanak lelaki bertemu doktor atau pakar. Jangan cuba merawatnya secara sendirian atau merujuk kepada bomoh, dukun atau mengikut amalan orang tua-tua.
Jika buah zakar yang kelihatan besar itu didemah (tuam), kilang sperma boleh rosak atau jika kebetulan ada usus dalam kerandut seperti hernia, usus itu boleh bengkak, radang dan menyebabkan bayi mengalami masalah perut pula.
Kadangkala berlaku kes buah zakar tiada dalam kerandut walaupun bayi itu disahkan memiliki sepasang buah zakar. Selain itu ada juga berlaku buah zakar tertarik ke atas, di mana keadaan ini dikenali sebagai ‘retractile testis’.
Namun bagi retractile testis, tiada apa perlu dilakukan. Ia hanya berlaku dalam keadaan tertentu seperti menyentuh anggota kelamin ketika membasuhnya. Dalam sekelip mata buah zakar yang tertarik itu masuk semula ke kerandut.
Jarang berlaku buah zakar itu tidak turun. Jika berlaku, masalah itu perlu dirujuk kepada doktor. Jika kerap terjadi, doktor akan cadangkan supaya buah zakar ditempatkan ke dalam kerandut melalui pembedahan kecil.
Sama juga dengan buah zakar yang tersangkut di atas, iaitu yang tidak turun sejak lahir. Keadaan ini dikenali sebagai ‘kryptorkidisme’ dan pembedahan menurunkan buah zakar yang tersangkut perlu dilakukan sebelum lelaki itu baligh.Pembedahan perlu dilakukan secepat mungkin, lagi cepat lagi bagus, seawal bayi masuk umur dua tahun. Dalam umur itu, tiada kemungkinan buah zakar yang tersangkut itu turun secara normal.Jika perlu, doktor akan lakukan pembedahan selepas mengetahui kedudukan buah zakar budak itu.
Jarang buah zakar itu tidak terbentuk atau tiada. Jika tiada, tidak perlu berbuat apa-apa. Satu buah zakar sudah cukup jika ia normal.
Saya syorkan pembaca yang ada masalah berkaitan anggota kelamin kanak-kanak lelaki bertemu doktor atau pakar. Jangan cuba merawatnya secara sendirian atau merujuk kepada bomoh, dukun atau mengikut amalan orang tua-tua.
Jika buah zakar yang kelihatan besar itu didemah (tuam), kilang sperma boleh rosak atau jika kebetulan ada usus dalam kerandut seperti hernia, usus itu boleh bengkak, radang dan menyebabkan bayi mengalami masalah perut pula.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Alhamudulillah masih punya ruang dan waktu untuk menulis sesuatu di sini..
chapter 1
uzair aqil dah 10 bulan, pantas sungguh masa berlalu. uzair aqil dah ada 4 batang gigi..2 atas 2bawah. jadi memang uzair aqil dah makan semi solid food. uzair aqil selera makan..cuma waktu dia x sihat (demam, diarhea,vomit), dia x mahu makan sangat. masa tu uzair aqil hospitalized di hospital kajang. 7 hari. 4 botol sodium chloride drip pada tangan uzair aqil. masa tu sedih dan kesian sangat tengok dia. jaga uzair aqil sampai sembuh. uzair aqil turn to be lactose intolerence. susu kena change. dah tak sesuai minum mamex gold. then followup uzair aqil di klinik pakar kanak-kanak an nur bangi. dr bagi mamex lf. ok dalam masa seminggu tapi lepas tu uzair aqil ada diarhea. then, we dicided to change to isomil (soy milk). alhamdulillah uzair aqil sesuai minum isomil. xde lagi diarhea, rashes n colic. uzair aqil pun dah dapat sesuaikan diri di nursery baru (makmal taman asuhan, MTA UPM). we always call it as uzair aqil small school. the best thing is every friday, we will receive uzair aqil's record book or i think most likely a journal. they report uzair aqil daily activity. seronok sangat baca. first two week tu memang kerap menangis tapi sekarang dah mula nak main. makan selera. macam-macam activiti uzair aqil di MTA.
chapter 2
urusan kerja memang tak pernah selesai. alhamdulillah itu maknanya saya memang setiap hari pergi pejabat untuk bekerja ;) masih punya rezeki di UPM bumi hijau ini. walau banyak dugaan mendatang dengan izin Allah SWT masih mampu saya laluinya..alhamdulillah. suami jadi pendengar setia, jadi penasihat yang jujur, jadi motivator yang tulus. saya jadi lebih cekal hadapi semua cabaran kerja. kisah azali azlan juga jadi inspirasi. walau dia baru berumur 18 thn, bila dia beritahu cara dia belajar sehingga mendapat 21 A adalah belajar dengan sabar. "saya belajar dengan sabar. bagi saya dalam perjuangan mesti ada dugaan dan cabaran daripada Allah, jadi sebagai pelajar Islam adalah perlu bagi saya untuk sabarndengan dugaan kerana setiap kesusahan itu ada kesenangan"-azali azlan. syukur kepada Allah SWT, saya lulus viva. ada pembetulan tesis perlu dibuat. saya belajar sabar dalam setiap hal yang saya lakukan sekarang..
chapter istimewa
satu lagu tentang saya dan suami..setengahnya telah menjadi realiti dan setengah lagi masih menjadi impian kami. chantek by Altimet feat Adeep Fabulous Cats :
hey wanita gembira dapat berjumpa
teringat kembali kali pertama kita bersua
ingat bila kita bersepatu serupa
tak lama dahulu jangan kau kata kau dah lupa
kau bersama kawan-kawan muda yang nyata
kau paling menyerlah di antara mereka
rambut hitam warna cokelat anak mata
membuat aku kurang fasih bila bicara
apakata kita ambil sedikit masa
untuk mengenali sesama kita dengan lanjutnya
dan jika kau rasa apa yang ku rasa
ayuh kita ke bab kedua dan seterusnya
chantek..
dirimu buat ku tertarik
menghilang segala prasangka
di jiwa
ohh chantek...
sungguh aku cinta kamu
dia..
pandai menjaga hati ayah dan ibunya
kelakuannya sama dengan orang tuaku juga
dia..
bisa cipta yg gula dari yang cuka
pandai menukar yg duka kepada suka
dia..
bijak mengatur acara dan juga masa
cekap memasak garam gula secukup rasa
dia..
pandai menjaga harta dan juga duitnya
tetap anggun tanpa mendedahkan kulitnya
dia..
setia pada Yang Esa satu-satunya
memenuhi tanggungjawab 5 waktunya
dia..
punya tempat dalam rancangan yg ku rangka
tak usah lengah
ayuh kita berumah tangga
chantek..
sechantek suria menyinar
seindah bunga yang di taman..mekar...
chantek...
dirimu buat ku tertarik..
menghilang segala prasangka
di jiwa...
oohhh chantekk..
sungguh aku cinta kamu
aku..
melihat kita bersama di hari tua
dia..
masih satu tiada empat tiga atau dua
dan walaupun kau sudah kepudaran rupa
kau tetap cantik padaku aku tak lupa
kita bersama di anjung luangkan masa
kewangan kita merdeka mampu bersara
hasil usaha kita dari masa dahulu
cukup untuk mengisi perut anak dan cucu
hidup santai tak perlu terburu-buru
punya masa kerja ibadah dan juga ilmu
anak kita dan ayahya semua sebulu
aku bilang kau chantek dan mereka setuju
chantek..
sechantek suria menyinar
seindah bunga yang di taman..mekar...
chantek...
dirimu buat ku tertarik..
menghilang segala prasangka di jiwa...
ohh chantek...
sungguh aku cinta kamu...
p/s: papa dedicate this song to mama. mama luv papa n our lil son uzair aqil.
chapter 1
uzair aqil dah 10 bulan, pantas sungguh masa berlalu. uzair aqil dah ada 4 batang gigi..2 atas 2bawah. jadi memang uzair aqil dah makan semi solid food. uzair aqil selera makan..cuma waktu dia x sihat (demam, diarhea,vomit), dia x mahu makan sangat. masa tu uzair aqil hospitalized di hospital kajang. 7 hari. 4 botol sodium chloride drip pada tangan uzair aqil. masa tu sedih dan kesian sangat tengok dia. jaga uzair aqil sampai sembuh. uzair aqil turn to be lactose intolerence. susu kena change. dah tak sesuai minum mamex gold. then followup uzair aqil di klinik pakar kanak-kanak an nur bangi. dr bagi mamex lf. ok dalam masa seminggu tapi lepas tu uzair aqil ada diarhea. then, we dicided to change to isomil (soy milk). alhamdulillah uzair aqil sesuai minum isomil. xde lagi diarhea, rashes n colic. uzair aqil pun dah dapat sesuaikan diri di nursery baru (makmal taman asuhan, MTA UPM). we always call it as uzair aqil small school. the best thing is every friday, we will receive uzair aqil's record book or i think most likely a journal. they report uzair aqil daily activity. seronok sangat baca. first two week tu memang kerap menangis tapi sekarang dah mula nak main. makan selera. macam-macam activiti uzair aqil di MTA.
chapter 2
urusan kerja memang tak pernah selesai. alhamdulillah itu maknanya saya memang setiap hari pergi pejabat untuk bekerja ;) masih punya rezeki di UPM bumi hijau ini. walau banyak dugaan mendatang dengan izin Allah SWT masih mampu saya laluinya..alhamdulillah. suami jadi pendengar setia, jadi penasihat yang jujur, jadi motivator yang tulus. saya jadi lebih cekal hadapi semua cabaran kerja. kisah azali azlan juga jadi inspirasi. walau dia baru berumur 18 thn, bila dia beritahu cara dia belajar sehingga mendapat 21 A adalah belajar dengan sabar. "saya belajar dengan sabar. bagi saya dalam perjuangan mesti ada dugaan dan cabaran daripada Allah, jadi sebagai pelajar Islam adalah perlu bagi saya untuk sabarndengan dugaan kerana setiap kesusahan itu ada kesenangan"-azali azlan. syukur kepada Allah SWT, saya lulus viva. ada pembetulan tesis perlu dibuat. saya belajar sabar dalam setiap hal yang saya lakukan sekarang..
chapter istimewa
satu lagu tentang saya dan suami..setengahnya telah menjadi realiti dan setengah lagi masih menjadi impian kami. chantek by Altimet feat Adeep Fabulous Cats :
hey wanita gembira dapat berjumpa
teringat kembali kali pertama kita bersua
ingat bila kita bersepatu serupa
tak lama dahulu jangan kau kata kau dah lupa
kau bersama kawan-kawan muda yang nyata
kau paling menyerlah di antara mereka
rambut hitam warna cokelat anak mata
membuat aku kurang fasih bila bicara
apakata kita ambil sedikit masa
untuk mengenali sesama kita dengan lanjutnya
dan jika kau rasa apa yang ku rasa
ayuh kita ke bab kedua dan seterusnya
chantek..
dirimu buat ku tertarik
menghilang segala prasangka
di jiwa
ohh chantek...
sungguh aku cinta kamu
dia..
pandai menjaga hati ayah dan ibunya
kelakuannya sama dengan orang tuaku juga
dia..
bisa cipta yg gula dari yang cuka
pandai menukar yg duka kepada suka
dia..
bijak mengatur acara dan juga masa
cekap memasak garam gula secukup rasa
dia..
pandai menjaga harta dan juga duitnya
tetap anggun tanpa mendedahkan kulitnya
dia..
setia pada Yang Esa satu-satunya
memenuhi tanggungjawab 5 waktunya
dia..
punya tempat dalam rancangan yg ku rangka
tak usah lengah
ayuh kita berumah tangga
chantek..
sechantek suria menyinar
seindah bunga yang di taman..mekar...
chantek...
dirimu buat ku tertarik..
menghilang segala prasangka
di jiwa...
oohhh chantekk..
sungguh aku cinta kamu
aku..
melihat kita bersama di hari tua
dia..
masih satu tiada empat tiga atau dua
dan walaupun kau sudah kepudaran rupa
kau tetap cantik padaku aku tak lupa
kita bersama di anjung luangkan masa
kewangan kita merdeka mampu bersara
hasil usaha kita dari masa dahulu
cukup untuk mengisi perut anak dan cucu
hidup santai tak perlu terburu-buru
punya masa kerja ibadah dan juga ilmu
anak kita dan ayahya semua sebulu
aku bilang kau chantek dan mereka setuju
chantek..
sechantek suria menyinar
seindah bunga yang di taman..mekar...
chantek...
dirimu buat ku tertarik..
menghilang segala prasangka di jiwa...
ohh chantek...
sungguh aku cinta kamu...
p/s: papa dedicate this song to mama. mama luv papa n our lil son uzair aqil.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Why Some People Have All The Luck
By Professor Richard Wiseman, University of Hertfordshire-
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks theydeserve?
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some peopleare always in the right place at the right time, while others consistentlyexperience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapersasking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research andover the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives and had themtake part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight intothe causes of their luck, their thoughts and behavior are responsible formuch of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chanceopportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities,whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due todifferences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both luckyand unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tellme how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large messagehalfway through the newspaper saying: 'Tell the experimenter you have seenthis and win $50.'
This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was morethan two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, butthe unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxietydisrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused onlooking for something else.
They go to parties intent on finding theirperfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They lookthrough newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisementsand miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is thererather than just what they are looking for. My research eventuallyrevealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. Theyare skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make luckydecisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfillingprophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude thattransforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could beused to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a monthcarrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a luckyperson.
Dramatic results! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities,listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to badluck.
One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened.The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfiedwith their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become lucky.
Finally, I had found the elusive 'luck factor'.
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right (yes indeed)
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call. Have a Lucky day and work for it.The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.
Have a nice day
(umi thanks for the for email ;)
Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks theydeserve?
A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.
Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck. I wanted to know why some peopleare always in the right place at the right time, while others consistentlyexperience ill fortune. I placed advertisements in national newspapersasking for people who felt consistently lucky or unlucky to contact me.
Hundreds of extraordinary men and women volunteered for my research andover the years, I have interviewed them, monitored their lives and had themtake part in experiments.
The results reveal that although these people have almost no insight intothe causes of their luck, their thoughts and behavior are responsible formuch of their good and bad fortune. Take the case of seemingly chanceopportunities. Lucky people consistently encounter such opportunities,whereas unlucky people do not.
I carried out a simple experiment to discover whether this was due todifferences in their ability to spot such opportunities. I gave both luckyand unlucky people a newspaper, and asked them to look through it and tellme how many photographs were inside. I had secretly placed a large messagehalfway through the newspaper saying: 'Tell the experimenter you have seenthis and win $50.'
This message took up half of the page and was written in type that was morethan two inches high. It was staring everyone straight in the face, butthe unlucky people tended to miss it and the lucky people tended to spot it.
Unlucky people are generally more tense than lucky people, and this anxietydisrupts their ability to notice the unexpected.
As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused onlooking for something else.
They go to parties intent on finding theirperfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They lookthrough newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisementsand miss other types of jobs.
Lucky people are more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is thererather than just what they are looking for. My research eventuallyrevealed that lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. Theyare skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make luckydecisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfillingprophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude thattransforms bad luck into good.
Towards the end of the work, I wondered whether these principles could beused to create good luck. I asked a group of volunteers to spend a monthcarrying out exercises designed to help them think and behave like a luckyperson.
Dramatic results! These exercises helped them spot chance opportunities,listen to their intuition, expect to be lucky, and be more resilient to badluck.
One month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened.The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfiedwith their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become lucky.
Finally, I had found the elusive 'luck factor'.
Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:
1) Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right (yes indeed)
2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine
3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well
4) Visualize yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call. Have a Lucky day and work for it.The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.
Have a nice day
(umi thanks for the for email ;)
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